Why am I here?
Maybe you’re wondering what’s really gone wrong, or why couples counseling was suggested in the first place. If you sometimes feel confused about the problems in your relationship, you’re in good company.
Why You’re Here
Maybe things feel tense or distant, and you’re not sure why. Perhaps your partner has asked for something you don’t quite get, or you feel like you’re trying but it’s never quite enough.
If you’re here, you might just be looking for answers, or at least a better sense of what’s really going on between you. This is a space to explore those questions together, with honesty and less pressure to have it all figured out.
Meet Your Guide
I’m Melissa Ryan, and I help couples turn conflict into connection. Using Relational Life Therapy (RLT), nature-based methods, and somatic tools, I guide you through the mess without shame.
I’ve worked with hundreds of couples navigating the WTF moments, and I’m here to help you rebuild a relationship you actually want to be in, with more accountability, more ease, and way less reactivity.
What to Expect
- Finally understand what your partner’s been trying to say (even if words are tricky)
- Spot how old habits and stress sneak into your dynamic
- Grab practical tools to shake up tired patterns
- Have open, honest, and loving conversations where both voices matter
Understand Your Partner
If you’re reading this, maybe you’re open or just curious about seeing things from your partner’s perspective. This space is meant for partners looking for more clarity, new tools, and simple ways to move things forward. You don’t have to figure it out alone; even small changes here can make a big difference in how you connect.
Virtual Sessions
Pros
- Regular support and accountability
- Integrates into your monthly rhythm
- Space to practice between sessions
- Ongoing guidance through ups and downs
Cons
- Progress can feel slower
- Life distractions may interrupt momentum
- Coordination across calendars and reliable childcare
Investment
- 90-minute sessions — $300
- Bi-monthly sessions (~2x per month)
- Steady work over time with space for practice
Outdoor Intensives
Pros
- Accelerates clarity and connection
- Uninterrupted space to go deeper
- Transformational experiences outdoors
- Like a retreat for your relationship
Cons
- Requires more upfront time and energy
- Higher financial investment
- Can temporarily heighten conflict before improvement occurs
Investment
- 2-Hour Hiking Session — $550
- 3–8 hour Intensives starting at $1500
- Immersive retreat-style work
You don’t have to stay stuck in this "relationshit".
We can make it better, together.